#1 Watch your language! Outdated language (like referring to her as a "lady") can be a turn-off. Swearing and bad grammer will not impress your date, either. Using fowl language around a woman may be construed as meaning you don't have much respect for her.
#2 Put some thought into your date. If you ask a woman out, have some activity or restaurant in mind. You don't have to rigidly stick to a plan. But have in mind what you are going to do with her. A man who asks a woman out then leaves it up to the woman to orchestrate the date is not in least bit impressive.
#3 Many men have a tendency to lecture or be forceful during conversation. Let your date speak. Relax and listen. Listening is SO important. If you don't care to listen, maybe you shouldn't be out on a date with her.
#4 You be the one to drive. Don't let the woman drive you around in her car on a first date. Take charge and get in the driver's seat. Also, don't drive HER car. #5 Always open the door for the woman. That means car doors, too. There is never an exception to this rule. If you do not, then the woman will view you as being rude, immature, selfish, or just not into her.
#6 Try to keep the tone of the date lighthearted and fun. Do not get into any serious conversations, and steer cleer of dark moods. Also, do not make the mistake of getting too familiar with your date. She is not your mother or sister or girlfriend of 10 years, so keep your behavior in check.
#7 Never be too touchy feely on the first date. You are out for the first time, so keep respectable boundaries. Pretend you are out with a dear friend or your sister. Touching should be affectionate and casual.
#8 Never try to kiss her at the end of the date. Let her make the first move. However, make it very easy for her to do so, should she wish. A guy who is too forceful or who is a cling-on at the end of the date is a big turnoff.
#9 At the end of the date, if you drop her off at her home, do not drive away until she is safely inside and has turned the light on.
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